When you came into my life 12 years ago, I was filled with such lofty ambitions and high ideals, I was going to teach you right from wrong, and I was going to teach you to be a good person, to show kindness, to give charity, to care for others and to put them first. I was going to teach you to live your life to the fullest, to see the fun in all you do, to suck the marrow from the bones of life and to never waste a single second.<\/p>\n
Little did I know that Hashem had in fact sent you to teach ME those very lessons and for that I am eternally grateful to BOTH of you. You have both taught me so much. What could I possible teach someone with such wisdom beyond her years, with such a deep understanding of emotions, with such a contagious love for life, with such a grasp of what is right and what is wrong and with such kindness for her fellow human beings? Perhaps I am here to keep you grounded, to feed you lamb ribs, to clean up after you, to allow you space to explore, to do crazy stuff with you, encourage your sense of adventure while still keeping you safe, to be your father and at times your friend. I am not exactly sure what role Hashem wants me to play but I know I love them all.<\/strong> Rewind twelve years to the moment I held you in my arms, tears flowing down my cheeks, unable to talk\u2026 that was the moment I knew that you would change lives, not just mine but in sometimes tiny and sometimes huge ways, the lives of all those you came into contact with. My eyes still get misty when I remember that moment.<\/strong><\/p>\n Fast forward a few years to leotards, ballet outfits, torn jeans, beautiful dresses, bare feet, old dirty ugs, flip flops, shorts, gym clothes, onesies, denim shorts, point shoes, school uniform, your batmitzvah dress, in fact anything! You just look so comfortable, so at home and so beautiful.<\/strong><\/p>\n You often ask me if I miss my mom and of course the answer is yes. I miss having her here to share my life with me, to talk to and to guide me. I am really sad that she never had the chance to meet her beautiful granddaughter but I see so much of her amazing spirit in you, her wisdom, and her genuine love for the people around her, her ability to see the good in everyone and how she would talk to everyone with real interest. Thank you for helping keep that memory alive for me.<\/strong><\/p>\n People tell me that I am making it really hard for some guy to win you over one day that I am setting the bar too high. That is not the way I see it, I hope you will never settle for less than you deserve and always continue to give so much of yourself. Remember the rules\u2026 he has to support Liverpool, love camping and be able to make a decent braai, the rest he can learn as he goes along, or you can teach him too.<\/strong><\/p>\n There is nothing you do in half measures! From your love for acrobatics and dance, your friendships, your Instagram account or trying to get in an extra five minutes of sleep in the morning when I am trying to get you ready for school\u2026 as you say \u201canything worth doing is worth doing properly\u201d. That is just another of those wonderful qualities I am trying to learn from you<\/strong>. To arrive somewhere and have people walk up to you and say \u201cAh so you are the famous Sasha, your love of life is legendary and your smile unmistakable\u201d just leaves me beaming with pride, I am just so proud to be known as \u201cSasha\u2019s Dad\u201d There are million stories I would like to share with the world, but chances are if they have seen my Facebook page, I have shared them already!<\/p>\n People are drawn to your smile and your warmth, they are taken with your humour and your charm, no matter what crosses your path, it will be those character traits that see you emerge smiling and beaming on the other side. I feel a little like Polonius as he dispensed the advice to his son Laertes (don\u2019t worry if you don\u2019t know who they are just yet, there is plenty of time and Google to learn) some of those words are now legendary and offer such a good guide to life\u2026<\/p>\n
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<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a>To quote one of my favourite bands Queen \u201cAnd bad mistakes \u2012 I\u2019ve made a few.\u201d, but then who hasn\u2019t? I know that some of the mistakes I have made may impacted on you but when I look at you, I see I must have done at least a few things right too. Learn from my mistakes by not repeating them and I promise to do the same.<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n\n